Ready to Plan Your Elopement? Let’s Talk!

Choosing an adventurous elopement over a large wedding is a big deal, a brave choice, and a beautiful experience. I’ve done the traveling, hiking, exploring, and understand the process of planning this kind of experience — so, I’ve compiled a few planning tips and ideas so that you can begin your own elopement planning journey.

Why Choose an Adventure Elopement?

If you're dreaming of a wedding day that feels more you—where you can explore epic landscapes, share quiet, intimate moments, and ditch the stress of a big traditional wedding—an adventure elopement might be exactly what you're looking for.

I. WHAT IS AN ELOPEMENT?
At its core, an elopement is an intimate wedding experience—focused entirely on what matters most: you, your partner, and your commitment to each other.

Unlike traditional weddings, elopements strip away the pressure of big guest lists and expectations. Instead, they can be as adventurous or as simple as you want them to be—whether that’s exchanging vows on a remote clifftop, hiking through the mountains, saying “I do” barefoot on a secluded beach, or even having an intimate ceremony in your own backyard.

Key Takeaway: Elopements are about choice. There are no rules—you get to craft a day that reflects your love story in the most meaningful way possible.

II. IS PLANNING AN ELOPEMENT TIME-CONSUMING?
The beauty of elopements is that they can be as planned or as spontaneous as you want.

• Dreaming of a well-planned destination elopement? You can take your time curating the details, from picking the perfect location to coordinating florals, lodging, and photography.

• Prefer a last-minute, spontaneous adventure? You could decide today and elope in Iceland or Bali next month—just grab your passports, book your flights, and let the adventure begin!

Key Takeaway: Whether you want a carefully designed experience or an impulsive escape, elopements offer the ultimate flexibility.

III. IS IT EXPENSIVE TO ELOPE?
Compared to a traditional wedding that costs an average of $30,000–$50,000, eloping is significantly more budget-friendly—with costs that go toward meaningful experiences rather than extravagant expenses.

Here’s where your budget will likely go:
✔ Travel & Lodging – Flights, hotels, Airbnbs, or campsites for your chosen destination
✔ Photography & Videography – The most important investment for capturing your adventure
✔ Permits & Location Fees – Some national parks, beaches, or private venues require permits
✔ Attire & Accessories – Your wedding dress, suit, rings, and any adventure-appropriate gear
✔ Florals & Details – Bouquets, table settings, and any special elements you want to include

Key Takeaway: Your elopement budget is completely customizable! Spend where it matters most—whether that’s a helicopter ride to a glacier or a cozy Airbnb for two.

IV. WHO COMES TO AN ELOPEMENT?
One of the most beautiful aspects of eloping is the intimacy.

• Just the Two of You: Many couples choose to elope alone, making the day completely about their love and connection.

• A Small Inner Circle: If you’d like to include loved ones, elopements typically have 2-10 guests, such as immediate family, best friends, or a close mentor.

• Virtual Celebrations: Some couples choose to livestream their elopement or host a casual reception later to celebrate with extended friends and family.

Key Takeaway: Elopements are about presence over pressure—surround yourself only with the people who make your day more meaningful.

Step 1: Define Your Vision

Before diving into logistics, take a step back and envision your perfect elopement day. This is your chance to create a day that reflects your love story—free from traditions that don’t resonate with you.

Key Questions to Ask Yourself:

Where do you see yourselves exchanging vows?

• Are you standing atop a rugged mountain peak, with the wind in your hair?

• Maybe you’re barefoot on a secluded beach, waves crashing nearby?

• Or is it a cozy, intimate ceremony in a forest glade or desert landscape?

What elements feel most important to you?

• Do you want to write personal vows or keep it simple?

• Will there be music, candles, or any special rituals incorporated into your ceremony?

• Are there meaningful traditions or personal touches you’d like to include?

What overall feeling do you want your elopement to have?

• A carefree adventure with hiking boots and windblown hair?

• A bohemian, romantic aesthetic with floral crowns and flowy dresses?

• A fun, champagne-popping, sunset-dancing kind of celebration?

Find Your Inspiration:
Spend some time browsing Pinterest, looking through National Geographic landscapes, or even flipping through travel blogs. Think about what makes you both feel the most alive, and let that be the foundation of your elopement vision.

Step 2: Consider the Logistics

Once you’ve set the tone for your elopement, it’s time to think about practical details like location accessibility, weather, and legal requirements.

Weather & Time of Year

Every destination has an ideal season—and some months are better than others.

• Want golden-hour beach vows? Avoid stormy seasons.

• Dreaming of a winter wonderland? Check accessibility for snowfall.

• Considering a National Park? Some locations have peak tourist seasons, while others shine during off-peak months.

Example: Iceland is known for its dramatic landscapes, but if you want long daylight hours, summer is best. Prefer to see the Northern Lights? Then fall or winter will be ideal.

Permits & Legal Requirements

Eloping in a National Park, State Park, or certain outdoor locations? You might need permits.

What to check for:

• Does your location require a wedding or photography permit?

• What are the marriage laws in that state/country?

• Do you need an officiant and witnesses?

Pro Tip: If legal requirements feel complicated, some couples choose to sign their marriage license in their home state and hold their vow exchange in their dream location.

Action Step:

• Visit the official website of your chosen location to check permit details.

• Call the park office or local municipality if you need specific information.

Step 3: Plan the Essentials

Now that you have your location and season locked in, it’s time to organize the must-have details.

Finalize Your Guest List (If Any)

• Will it be just the two of you, or do you want close family and friends?

• If you’re including guests, send out invites early—especially for destination elopements.

Secure Lodging

• Booking an Airbnb or VRBO? Do this early, as popular locations sell out fast.

• Want a cozy boutique hotel or a luxury cabin? Look at reviews and amenities.

• Need accommodations for guests? Consider a rental that fits everyone.

Arrange Travel Plans

• Will flights be involved? Look for budget-friendly deals on:

  • Pomelo, Going, Skyscanner, Hopper

• Do you need to rent a car to access remote locations?

• Will you add extra days to explore the area?

Pro Tip: Book flights & lodging at least 3-6 months in advance to get the best prices and availability.

Step 4: Lean on an Expert (That’s Me!)

Planning an elopement shouldn’t feel stressful—it should feel exciting! I’ve helped countless couples bring their dream elopement to life, and I’d love to help you, too. Whether you need guidance on:

• Picking the perfect location

• Understanding permits & logistics

• Creating a stress-free timeline

• Choosing vendors (florists, officiants, stylists, etc.)

How to Pick the Perfect Elopement Location

One of the most exciting parts of planning an adventure elopement is choosing a stunning backdrop for your day.

When selecting a location, consider:
✔ Scenery – Do you want mountains, beaches, forests, deserts, or waterfalls?
✔ Accessibility – Do you want a remote hike-in spot or an easy drive-up location?
✔ Time of Year – Some locations are better in certain seasons (wildflower meadows in spring, snowy landscapes in winter).
✔ Permits & Regulations – Some places require permits for ceremonies or photography (I can help with this!).

Pro Tip: If you want a location that’s less crowded, consider eloping on a weekday or off-season!

Adventure Elopement Photography Tips

Capturing your elopement story is one of the best investments you’ll make. Here’s how to make the most of it:

✔ Golden Hour is Magic – Plan your ceremony or portraits during sunrise or sunset for soft, dreamy lighting.
✔ Be Present, Not Posed – Your elopement is about real emotions—don’t stress about “perfect” poses!
✔ Weather = Storytelling – Rain, snow, wind—it all adds to the magic. Be ready to embrace the elements!
✔ Choose a Photographer Who Gets You – Your photographer should help you plan, scout locations, and guide you through the whole experience. (Hint: That’s exactly what I do! 😉)

Ready to Plan Your Adventure Elopement? Let’s Talk!

Your elopement should be an unforgettable experience—whether that means hiking to a hidden waterfall, exchanging vows on a dramatic cliffside, or sharing a cozy cabin ceremony. Reach out with any and all Elopement questions — I am here to help with the whole process from location ideas, figuring out the logistics, to hiking into the sunset!